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What are your dating processes? What are you really looking for when it comes to finding love? We have to get to the point of asking ourselves these hard questions, to get to that common denominator.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/How-do-you-Date-e1lgd46

You have to listen to this, it's a must! No description needed 😊!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Traditional-Wings-v--Boneless-Wings-e1itnu3

Sometimes in order to see how far we have come, we have reflect on where we were before and see the beauty in the survival. You made it!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Reflect-e1ij4t7

Are you at the point in your life where you are numb to the fact of failed results that you accept anything; just to say you are with someone. Be intentional about your process!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Go-With-the-Flow-Mentality-e1hm1jv

In the lonely season is where you find clarity of self. But most are afraid to sit at the table and face those fears. But in order to move forward you have to ask yourself those hard questions.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Lonely-Season-e1h8v1s

Your past hurt and trauma doesn't define your present and your future being. What lessons are you learning in your pain?


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Divorcing-the-Doubt-e1enrtb

What are you doing differently than before to attract what is specifically meant for you? On this journey of finding love, we have to get outside of our norm in our preparation.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Ingredients-e1dlal8

We tend to blame others on what we attract into our lives on this journey of finding love. We blame others instead of looking at what we can control in this regard to heal and take back our control.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Taking-Inventory-e1coaae

Life has a way of testing us. Especially on this love journey; this particular hurt is a different type of hurt that if we don't face those let downs going forth we begin to attract our pain.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Attracting-Your-Pain-e1buqdd

On this dating journey, truth be told you want to give up and throwing in the towel. Stay in fight and focus on self-healing.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Truth-Be-Told-e1b8mk8

On this journey of finding love, we tend to say the hell with it when things are not going our way or happening in our timing. Stay focus on your process!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Keep-Applying-Pressure-e1abcub

Sometimes instead of doing the necessary work to heal, we tend to find comfort in our pain. We use hurt to attract more hurt, expecting people love use through our pain.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-You-Comfortable-in-Your-Pain-e19oa6a

Negating that voice within that tells us that a person is not meant to be in our space is sometime the tipping point of emotions that sends us overboard. Not taking heed to that gut feeling.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Gut-Feeling-e191lvs

On this journey of finding love, we have choices on how we choose to proceed. We have a choice on what we attract into our life in this regard, whether good or bad!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Choices-e186gm6

What I often find is that instead of people embracing the single phase or quote on quote the lonely phase of their lives; we begin to use other people for a temporary fix. This phase is meant for preparation of self.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Embrace-your-Singleness-e1661kh

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We tend to sabotage our own happiness when finding love because we project our past relationships onto our new relationships; which causes us to attract out past hurts.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Get-Out-of-Your-Own-Way-e15ft2r

Women I want you to understand something, you are the prize! Enough said! You are the backbone of men; we need you to survive and vice versa.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/You-Are-The-Prize-e14sin6

Sometimes we are so hard on ourselves when our dating life and relationship life doesn't go as plan and it puts us in this mood of saying F#@& It; that's ok but we can't stay there. Don't let others Insecurities control your outcome.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/F-It-e14kd8b

More often than not, I find most people that is on their journey to find love; they are infatuated with the idea of love which causes them to be pushed further and further away from their designed partner.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Infatuation-e13ibp3

More often than not, I see so many women chasing behind a man that does add any value to their lives; vice versa with men as well. And the intentional chase and pursuit is not reciprocal. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Does-HeShe-Really-Want-You-e12nal8

Ladies you are meant to be found not you searching. Trust the process and not rush the process on this journey. Do not force the hand.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Should-She-Propose-e11o2ba

Truly our words subconsciously have a make or break outcome over our love life and what we attract into our lives. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Power-of-the-Tongue-e1185dn

We have conformed to the mindset of just settling in this dating and relationship space for the sake of saying that I have a warm body next to me at night; which causes us to delay blessings in this space.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Delayed-Blessings-evsmdq

On this journey of finding love, we tend to negate the red flags along the way and we begin to settle by looking the other way. 


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Oftentimes we negate the red flags in hopes of change, but the change never comes and the words never line up with the actions. How we Navigate through that?


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Who-is-the-Fool-etc1ap

How many deposits are you making into your relationship and are deposits being reciprocal. Oftentimes, we become numb to acceptance of the constant withdrawals in our life; it becomes a norm. We have to command the value we are worth.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Deposits-v--Withdrawals-es22p0

We tend to rush the process in finding and searching for love to speed up the timing process. In doing this we continue to push ourselves further away from the person we are meant to be with.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Timing-is-Everything-eqoe0p

We focus so much on searching for Mr/Mrs. Right in our love life, that we negate the preparation it takes to receive them or attract them into our lives.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Intentional-in-your-Preparation-eq6rft

We sometimes lose ourselves in our dating experiences or relationships for the sake of others. In doing this we begin to forget that we are individuals first and we question our value.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Value-of-Self-epcnfv

If you really zone in and focus on your process and not just the fact of being lonely, you can really find clarity on the Why!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Clarity-in-your-Loneliness-eoq8tt

Sometimes in order for you to make it through the low moments and lonely moments we have to get to the point of enriching ourselves; even when other don't.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/You-Are-Worthy-eo51q4

We pray and ask God to send us true love or send us someone that will appreciate us, but ask yourself are you in position or prepared to receive what you prayed for.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-you-in-Position-enp5k7

Oftentimes when we have experienced trauma and hurt in relationships and throughout the dating process, we begin to question our value and state of being a priority.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-You-A-Priority-enbd48

Oftentimes we lose sight of being intentional about the process of dating. We try speed up the process to fast track outcomes, but in reality it messes us up mentally.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Being-Intentional-emf0mq

Oftentimes we are to content with our norm dating and in relationships, but yet continue to stay on the same roller-coaster of hurt. In order to attract something different we have do things differently.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Comfortable-being-Uncomfortable-em1t1g

Every decision that we make in our dating life has a consequence attached to it; whether good or bad.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Consequences-el74d7

Sometimes when we feel that we are ready to move on in this journey of dating or relationship process, we tend to us others to mask our hurt; which actually causes us to fall for the triggers of our past.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Triggers-ekakvp

Oftentimes in this process of finding love and dating, we hang onto the words of a person moreso than their actions.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Actions-Speaks-Louder-ejeb5n

Oftentimes when we are going through our tough times in our relationships, dating experiences, and breakups; we tend to let a person control our emotional happiness in this regard.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Happiness-eiple5

In every situation that has taken place in our lives, dating experiences, and in our relationships there are lessons that we need to learn. What are yours?


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During our dating and relationship experiences, we oftentimes ask ourselves the "Why" questions. Observing the why in our situation will help us to draw out out factual conclusion about "The Why Factor" 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/The-Why-Factor-egvmjs

At times during our healing process we where our vulnerability on shoulders, which distorts our judgment in dating process and finding love. Take ownership of what cause your to be in that vulnerable state.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Being-Vulnerable-eg8676

Oftentimes we put so much stock into others to validate us and to make us feel whole. Doing this we sabotage our own happiness.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Validation-efqde9

Believe it or not outside influences affect the way we move and communicate in out Relationship. We make impulse decisions base on influences. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Influences-efdv54

Subconsciously when we want to attract what we are looking for in our dating process or relationships, we first have to take ownership of our past hurts!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Take-Ownership-ef8cce

Not asking those hard questions while going through your dating experiences that lead to an awesome relationship, can sometimes set us up for the hurt to come down the road.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-we-asking-the-hard-questions-ef1dav

https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-we-Compatible-ebtqfp

Oftentimes we tend to look pass certain issues and flaws that does not add value to us in our love life. 


In this day and time of relationships we love the feel good moments; the instant gratification aspects of dating.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/30-Minute-Love-eb1l3g

Oftentimes in relationships and the dating process, we tend to forget about ourselves to appease others and we begin to become stagnant. How do we shift the norm?


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Shift-eal9nk

Oftentimes in relationships and in the dating process, when we are that moment of wanting something different certain things distract us from focusing on the bigger picture.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Focus-eadr1d

Denial can sometimes be the very thing that is actually keeping us stagnant in life and in our love life.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Admit-You-are-Broken-ea1khu

Oftentimes in relationships and dating, we are fighting an uphill battle for the love and affection that we give to be reciprocated. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Love-Expiration-e9uqau

Oftentimes in our love life and dating we try to hold on to dead weight that is subconsciously suffocating us. Cut them off!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Pruning-Season-e9ekko

You have power in your thoughts on what you attract into your life.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/You-get-what-you-Attract-e94u0r

Oftentimes in relationships and in dating after dealing with a breakup we use others to actually try to get over our previous relationship, which causes us to never truly heal. It causes us to subconsciously date our past.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Dating-my-Past-e8vlsc

Sometimes is dating or in relationships we forget about the wellbeing of ourselves for the sake of saying we are in a relationship or dating a specific person.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Should-I-Stay-or-Should-I-Go-e8saap

Being comfortable oftentimes creates a stagnation of progression in dating and relationships and you begin to settle for things you normally want settle for.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Why-do-we-Settle-e8j6jq

In the dating process and this thing we call love, how view dating can sometimes trigger distorted thinking on the thoughts of dating and finding love. Changing up our thought process and how we view dating even after bad experiences can sometimes change what we attract.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Subconscious-Thoughts-on-Dating-e8aram

Oftentimes in this journey to find love, we try to mask our hurt and pain, then look to others for healing and not wanting to face our hurt.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Face-your-Hurt-e80sfi

Oftentimes when looking for love, we don't have a plan and we are not leading with purpose and intentions. Change up your approach and attract something different.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Dating-with-a-Purpose-e7tc9q

Oftentimes after a break-up we think that we are ready to move on to the next before truly healing and we sabotage our growth and happiness!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/How-your-Old-Season-can-Hinder-Your-New-Season-e7sm06

I get asked this question a lot, let's talk about it. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/How-do-I-know-if-I-am-ready-to-start-dating-again-e7sej0

This is the official Podcast of TV Host, Award-Winning Author, and Relationship Coach Aaron Jordan Jr, known to many as Mr. Know Your Worth. As seen in Madame Noire, on CBS news, ABC, and a multitude of other media outlets providing Relationship advice; he now brings it to Revamp the Podcast. Giving you 3-5 minutes of amazing straight-talk and empowerment for the soul on Relationships, Dating and Personal Development.

"Your worth is undeniable and Your value is priceless!" ~ Aaron Jordan Jr

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