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On this journey of finding love, we tend to negate the red flags along the way and we begin to settle by looking the other way. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Red-Flags-eumjoc

Oftentimes we negate the red flags in hopes of change, but the change never comes and the words never line up with the actions. How we Navigate through that?


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Who-is-the-Fool-etc1ap

How many deposits are you making into your relationship and are deposits being reciprocal. Oftentimes, we become numb to acceptance of the constant withdrawals in our life; it becomes a norm. We have to command the value we are worth.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Deposits-v--Withdrawals-es22p0

We tend to rush the process in finding and searching for love to speed up the timing process. In doing this we continue to push ourselves further away from the person we are meant to be with.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Timing-is-Everything-eqoe0p

We focus so much on searching for Mr/Mrs. Right in our love life, that we negate the preparation it takes to receive them or attract them into our lives.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Intentional-in-your-Preparation-eq6rft

We sometimes lose ourselves in our dating experiences or relationships for the sake of others. In doing this we begin to forget that we are individuals first and we question our value.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Value-of-Self-epcnfv

If you really zone in and focus on your process and not just the fact of being lonely, you can really find clarity on the Why!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Clarity-in-your-Loneliness-eoq8tt

Sometimes in order for you to make it through the low moments and lonely moments we have to get to the point of enriching ourselves; even when other don't.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/You-Are-Worthy-eo51q4

We pray and ask God to send us true love or send us someone that will appreciate us, but ask yourself are you in position or prepared to receive what you prayed for.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-you-in-Position-enp5k7

Oftentimes when we have experienced trauma and hurt in relationships and throughout the dating process, we begin to question our value and state of being a priority.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-You-A-Priority-enbd48

Oftentimes we lose sight of being intentional about the process of dating. We try speed up the process to fast track outcomes, but in reality it messes us up mentally.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Being-Intentional-emf0mq

Oftentimes we are to content with our norm dating and in relationships, but yet continue to stay on the same roller-coaster of hurt. In order to attract something different we have do things differently.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Comfortable-being-Uncomfortable-em1t1g

Every decision that we make in our dating life has a consequence attached to it; whether good or bad.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Consequences-el74d7

Sometimes when we feel that we are ready to move on in this journey of dating or relationship process, we tend to us others to mask our hurt; which actually causes us to fall for the triggers of our past.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Triggers-ekakvp

Oftentimes in this process of finding love and dating, we hang onto the words of a person moreso than their actions.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Actions-Speaks-Louder-ejeb5n

Oftentimes when we are going through our tough times in our relationships, dating experiences, and breakups; we tend to let a person control our emotional happiness in this regard.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Happiness-eiple5

In every situation that has taken place in our lives, dating experiences, and in our relationships there are lessons that we need to learn. What are yours?


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Lessons-ei18js

During our dating and relationship experiences, we oftentimes ask ourselves the "Why" questions. Observing the why in our situation will help us to draw out out factual conclusion about "The Why Factor" 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/The-Why-Factor-egvmjs

At times during our healing process we where our vulnerability on shoulders, which distorts our judgment in dating process and finding love. Take ownership of what cause your to be in that vulnerable state.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Being-Vulnerable-eg8676

Oftentimes we put so much stock into others to validate us and to make us feel whole. Doing this we sabotage our own happiness.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Validation-efqde9

Believe it or not outside influences affect the way we move and communicate in out Relationship. We make impulse decisions base on influences. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Influences-efdv54

Subconsciously when we want to attract what we are looking for in our dating process or relationships, we first have to take ownership of our past hurts!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Take-Ownership-ef8cce

Not asking those hard questions while going through your dating experiences that lead to an awesome relationship, can sometimes set us up for the hurt to come down the road.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-we-asking-the-hard-questions-ef1dav

https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Are-we-Compatible-ebtqfp

Oftentimes we tend to look pass certain issues and flaws that does not add value to us in our love life. 


In this day and time of relationships we love the feel good moments; the instant gratification aspects of dating.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/30-Minute-Love-eb1l3g

Oftentimes in relationships and the dating process, we tend to forget about ourselves to appease others and we begin to become stagnant. How do we shift the norm?


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Shift-eal9nk

Oftentimes in relationships and in the dating process, when we are that moment of wanting something different certain things distract us from focusing on the bigger picture.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Focus-eadr1d

Denial can sometimes be the very thing that is actually keeping us stagnant in life and in our love life.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Admit-You-are-Broken-ea1khu

Oftentimes in relationships and dating, we are fighting an uphill battle for the love and affection that we give to be reciprocated. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Love-Expiration-e9uqau

Oftentimes in our love life and dating we try to hold on to dead weight that is subconsciously suffocating us. Cut them off!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Pruning-Season-e9ekko

You have power in your thoughts on what you attract into your life.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/You-get-what-you-Attract-e94u0r

Oftentimes in relationships and in dating after dealing with a breakup we use others to actually try to get over our previous relationship, which causes us to never truly heal. It causes us to subconsciously date our past.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Dating-my-Past-e8vlsc

Sometimes is dating or in relationships we forget about the wellbeing of ourselves for the sake of saying we are in a relationship or dating a specific person.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Should-I-Stay-or-Should-I-Go-e8saap

Being comfortable oftentimes creates a stagnation of progression in dating and relationships and you begin to settle for things you normally want settle for.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Why-do-we-Settle-e8j6jq

In the dating process and this thing we call love, how view dating can sometimes trigger distorted thinking on the thoughts of dating and finding love. Changing up our thought process and how we view dating even after bad experiences can sometimes change what we attract.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Subconscious-Thoughts-on-Dating-e8aram

Oftentimes in this journey to find love, we try to mask our hurt and pain, then look to others for healing and not wanting to face our hurt.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Face-your-Hurt-e80sfi

Oftentimes when looking for love, we don't have a plan and we are not leading with purpose and intentions. Change up your approach and attract something different.


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/Dating-with-a-Purpose-e7tc9q

Oftentimes after a break-up we think that we are ready to move on to the next before truly healing and we sabotage our growth and happiness!


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/How-your-Old-Season-can-Hinder-Your-New-Season-e7sm06

I get asked this question a lot, let's talk about it. 


https://anchor.fm/Revamp-the-podcast/episodes/How-do-I-know-if-I-am-ready-to-start-dating-again-e7sej0

This is the official Podcast of TV Host, Award-Winning Author, and Relationship Coach Aaron Jordan Jr, known to many as Mr. Know Your Worth. As seen in Madame Noire, on CBS news, ABC, and a multitude of other media outlets providing Relationship advice; he now brings it to Revamp the Podcast. Giving you 3-5 minutes of amazing straight-talk and empowerment for the soul on Relationships, Dating and Personal Development.

"Your worth is undeniable and Your value is priceless!" ~ Aaron Jordan Jr

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